How can SHE be the one who's heartbroken? This is crazy! Is she really putting this on me, that I'm the one who ended our M?
Actually, she dumped you when she had the A and moved out of the house. You are finally responding correctly (IMHO) to that event. You are not ending the M, she is (by living elsewhere and continuing the A, she was still in that process)! You are just separating officially, to protect yourself. Who knows who will be the one serving the D papers?! That's a long ways away.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
