Did he stop loving me?

[Augtan]

Halfmissing--love the S8's advice!! Mine have said similar things!! Too funny!

Cynmad-I am so sorry you are going thru this, the baby thing would make me crazy, you seem to handling it very well. My XH said all the things yours is too! He is still with OW and swears that they will never break up! Whatever! We have lost everything!! Today, I signed away my house to "short sale" there is a buyer and we lose the house Jan. 8th, which means XH will stop paying me alimony. I got very, very screwed in the divorce, so be very careful with the finances like everyone says. I have saved all the cards, letters, poems, everything! XH never denies that he loved me, in fact he says he never stopped loving me just fell in love with someone else. It is just plain crazy talk! Love is a feeling, commitment is marriage! You can always bring love back! I know one day my XH is going to hit rock bottom and realize all he has lost..all he has left is his job and OW! Our kids won't have much to do with him at all and we live 700 miles away! Everything they say is to make themselves feel justified in what they have done! And, mine puts all his anger at himself onto me! I have gone completely dark, will not answer his texts, e-mails, nothing. Should be interesting with Christmas coming and all the plans that should be being made and aren't as far as the kids go. He told me he will work it out with the kids...good luck! Hang in there, this is a difficult season for many!

I agree it would be much, much easier if he were dead! My dad tells me all the time to pretend he is dead, now I am really going to do that and see what happens!

Me-39
XH-42
M-17+ T-21
D16, S14, D10
Bomb- 7/07
moves out-9/07
back-12/07
out again-7/08
D-5/09
find out he was back with OW since 2/08--9/09
moving on!!