of course keep doing what your doing!!! this is working!
and for real, now I'm not a guy, but because of all the craziness and time frame, and G please help, I know we mentioned before that a guy would be all over you...and I said no because of the time frame...
NOW, that we know, MF just said... if I can remember HOW to flirt.
lets think...if she has not flirted at all (or much anyways) how do you think the H will feel about that? Do you think that he should still try to get some?
If I compare him to my own H, we didn't ML very often for the years coming up to our almost D, and he even said during our sitch that he was fine with our sex life. I thought the problem was something totally different. Well guess what. I got way horny during that sitch because I couldn't have him, so I was as big a flirt as ever, and although he seemed like he was unmoved...(didn't reciprocate much but didn't say no very well either) BUT as things progressed and he started walking down my path instead of her path...and after how our sex life has been since...woah. totally totally different. and OBVIOUSLY there was a problem before, because I just thought he didn't want to do it cause, 1 he didn't think I was attractive enough, and 2 he was tired, and 3, I thought he had got his wild side out and was "old".
I was totally wrong. and the #1 change for it? was because I started flirting and initiating and acted like he turned me on!
He says even now that he thought I was the one who didn't want to ML much, and I'm like, are you crazy? I would have never said no!! but I just didn't show him the way I needed to for him to understand.
So, I will be excited for you to start flirting sometime! when your ready. take baby steps.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
