No marriage makes it easy to walk away; on the other hand I am spared all the pain of the divorce and separation that everyone else is going through. All those years together. Its a marriage to me wow wow wow.
so get my own life (which I have; I'm just entering grief phase now and have to go through that)
If the A ends, and he wants to talk...I may be there, I may not, right? Be there to listen if you want. Not to take back. But to see if he is offering something better than he currently is. Then really go dark on him Have to work on the mental discipline to keep him out of my mind.
Better wear the elastic band tonight girl.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
