Well go through and clean it out. Leave it at that. She is being business like. Detached. So should you. Its her stuff. And in the end its just stuff. Detach and toss it. It will help you.
I don't have any emotional attachment to the stuff. It's just a bunch of junk, and now it's all waterlogged. It's going to be a nasty job, and I thought she should help.
