Well, wow, sorry to hear that. I will go back and read your posts.

Is your wife in an A? and have you been trying DB stuff?

Maybe "done" is "done."

I have been running that through my brain, trying to accompany it with a shrug, an OK, an I'll be OK.

It's very hard to balance a twinkling of hope with the need to survive and move on.

Will the divorce papers force you two into any conversations at all?

Did she give any reason for WA? any process to help you understand at all?

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process