avermont, my sitch is a bit similar to yours since my W dropped the bomb about 2.5 months ago. We have had very little R talk....and we have been very cordial and friendly for the most part. Well, yesterday I received divorce papers. So she meant it when she said she was done. I just wish we could have tried some MC or other alternatives. I guess it is now onto the next phase of my life....I just hope that me and my son will have a good relationship.


Me 44/W 32
S1
M8
Bomb 9/25/09
Separate houses (about 1 hour apart)