my W doesn't regret her affair

[TrentC]

W: I can't go in that house again. I can't handle it. You said we're separated and we're done, then we're separated, and we're done. I can't handle going back there. If you want to hire someone to go in and clear it out, I'll contribute to that.

Is this what you actually said, or is she rewriting history?

If you didn't say that, you need to call her on it. As you say, it was her choices that led you to this point.