I'm darn sure going to stop worrying about her and start taking better care of me and my boys. I am going to model what toughness really is for them, and I know I can do that while detaching comfortably. UPDATE: Saw my wife at my son's Xmas Holiday Program today at his preschool. She was very apologetic about being late this morning, and said she wants to stay the night tonight bc she misses her boys. Also wants to get a Xmas tree and decorate it.
"Wife, I have decided I will not share you with another man. As long as you are involved in any way with another man I will not allow you back in the house."
that's the boundary - her behavior and the consequences
she's testing your resolve.
Norse, You sound good from that last post. You have to think thru this and you are. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
