He wasn’t going to throw away his 25 year marriage on a 4 month emotional fling with a seemingly unbalanced woman who appears to be obsessed with a "fatal attraction" syndrome.
This makes me curious to know what OM's wife really knows about the situation. I'm with Cutter and PDT; you need to talk to her directly.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement