Thanks for your posts Jeff and TIF. Yeah, space needed. But hope not required in this space.
Its all so familiar-he loves me/he loves me not-the roll and jolt of the yo yo.
Get a text from him this evening saying he won`t be home tonight. No reason. How`s that for an action on his "I don`t hink I want to leave you" statement of this am. No, I didn`t text him back.
Really, if I dig deep into my heart of hearts(and DBing has taught me that much)I feel coldness for H`s behaviour as a man, a father, a husband.
I`ve stood. But you can only stand for so much.
With his type of personality disorder whatever it is, he only wants me when he cant have me and doesn`t want me when I`m there for him.
He wanted mediation. He wanted separation. We compromised on his moving out from my `please work on the relationship` to his `going before Xmas` and agreed to the end of Jan date with his telling the kids on Jan 16th. That`s in black and white, agreed with mediator.
No fudgy "I don`t think I want to leave you" can row me back on that.I`m worth more.
