Jeff -- Yes, I did it. It now feels like a dream---like it didn't really happen, maybe because I didn't let myself get upset or emotional---but truly, I was worried, but confident that I was in the right place for what was going on with her and felt like they knew what they were doing. With that said, I have noticed that things don't bother me like they used to. It's hard to get upset and scream about the big ink stain on the leather sofa (thanks to S10)---when in the grand scheme of things it is nothing compared to what I've been living through.

I kind of dropped off of here for some time, and guess I missed your appendix story. I'll have to do some reading............I did read enough to know you are doing well and recently made everything official. This time of year is TOUGH!!!


Me 45
M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08
D 18, D 14, S 12