I am having a bit of a thought, though I think in the end I agree with cutterbug. By only question is whether there are similar things you may be wanting from him. In which case it might make sense to keep things a bit more cooperative for now.
You could always send him the name of the bank that the loan is through along with the phone number and he can call them and find out. Also you could send him the name of who yall order contacts through again with the phone number and he can ask them as well.
Up to you,
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I decided to be the bigger person, especially since he told me to "kiss his a$$" a few days ago. Being petty and nasty just isn't my thing, so I replied to his email nearly a day later and simply said 23.
He should be able to figure out how to call the eye doctor on his own. Where the heck does he think his contacts come from? lol
He better realize he has other bills to pay, because I'm not doing it for him.
He better realize he has other bills to pay, because I'm not doing it for him.
Just make sure those bills don't affect you in anyway if they don't get paid. You have to take care of yourself.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
This is probably just the "Do The Right Thing" in me speaking. But I would probably send him a list of what bills he is responsible for. That way he can't come back to you and blame you for something he didn't pay if he was made aware of his bills.
Just a thought.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Seriously?! I realize he hasn't been responsible for anything in the last 13 years, but why do I need to remind him to pay his car insurance, cell phone, etc. He drives daily and uses the phone. Surely he must know they need to be paid.
If he asks, I'll give him the dates, log-ins, passwords, etc. But I don't think I'll remind him without being asked.
Is he a child or is he an adult? If he is an adult he needs to learn that stuff just does not automagically happen. Best way he learns that is to fail. Let him fail.
That is the right thing to do. He needs to put away the toys and put his big boy hat on now and start acting like an adult for a change.
