I am using the last resort technique as described in DB, but this feels like I am setting myself up for more heartbreak. I did go through 10 months of pushing her away and am prepared to stick with this for as long as it takes.
I know she wants to live the family life with an affectionate husband and I believe a can be this husband. I know the "Casanova" she has been seeing is not this type of man, so I'm thinking this is just a temporary ego boost.
I guess my question is how long can I continue this while she is out living the single life?