And many thanks for the eye opener as I would still be unhappy and oblivious. The truth hurts but at least now I can make my decisions knowing what cards he has up his sleeve.
Correct!
I, for the LIFE of me, will NEVER understand how it can somehow be BETTER to be ignorant and in the dark about such important matters. I prefer "Always be in the superior knowledge position" to "Ignorance is bliss," any day of the week.
Saying a prayer for you RIGHT NOW, MG, that you will be strong and confident tonite. WRITE OUT YOUR SCRIPT
REHEARSE IT.
OUT LOUD, preferably, if you have a private place you can do it.
Visualize yourself saying the words, getting his objections, and then handling them with confidence and grace.
It really does make a difference. Preparation + Prayer is a DEADLY combination for a deceitful person to have to face!!!