I am leery of "dating" any other women right now. I have had social plans (coffee and dinner) with other women. Ironically in this town of 60,000 people, both women were only one degree of separation from my WAW. One was a sorority daughter of one of her new man-hating divorcee friends, and the other was the little sister of her best appropriate male friend at the school where she regularly subs. I expect word will filter back to her that I am desirable to others.
AS long as you are not giving your date the impression that it's anything more than social, I don't see why you can't enjoy female company.
Which may ratchet up feelings of jealousy when she hears how much fun her friend had with you...
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement