Yes, there probably is someone else. I just don't call it an affair when we are separated and she's not trying to work on the M.
If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...
If it's an obstacle to trying to rebuild your R, then it's an affair.
The reason she's not interested in working on the marraige is because she has another man. A married person spending time, money, love, affection, sex, intimate conversations, and giving gifts to someone other than their spouse on a consistent basis is having a affair. Quack!
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
