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Re: Not Me...Ever part 2
Serenity13 #1889863 12/09/09 06:09 PM
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Originally Posted By: Serenity13
That isn't showing spite on my part?


No, not at all. As far as he knows, you are way too busy GALing to be checking your email.

What makes you think his question is genuine? Does he really want to know how you are doing or does he just want to make sure that you are sitting at home and not out doing fun things without him?

Sorry, that was kind of harsh.

Chin up. You will be okay.

(((Serenity)))
Re: Not Me...Ever part 2
Serenity13 #1889867 12/09/09 06:11 PM
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Originally Posted By: Serenity13
I really don't know anymore since he hasn't made any attempt at contact since Halloween - Damn I feel torn


Then maybe you can take a chance and reply to it; keep it polite and brief. Don't solicit a response.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."
Re: Not Me...Ever part 2
TrentC #1889872 12/09/09 06:20 PM
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Originally Posted By: Serenity13
I really don't know anymore since he hasn't made any attempt at contact since Halloween - Damn I feel torn


Hmm. Well, this changes my opinion. I agree with Trent. Reply to him, but in general terms. If he wants more info, then let him ask.

Me & H: 33 yrs
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Re: Not Me...Ever part 2
motherof3 #1889881 12/09/09 06:26 PM
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Ok give me an idea of what general terms means? Short and sweet - All is well kinda thing without giving anything away?

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
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Re: Not Me...Ever part 2
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"The kids and I are doing well, given the circumstances."

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."
Re: Not Me...Ever part 2
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Thank you Trent & MO3 for your quick responses smile

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~
Re: Not Me...Ever part 2
Serenity13 #1889898 12/09/09 06:32 PM
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Glad to help. smile Let us know how it goes.

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M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."
Re: Not Me...Ever part 2
TrentC #1889919 12/09/09 06:46 PM
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I will but I am going to wait before I send a response since he sent it to my work email, I can always say I was busy.

Just seeing his name made my stomach drop and because it has been so long since he reached out, I don't want to eff up any opportunity given to me.

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~
Re: Not Me...Ever part 2
Serenity13 #1889932 12/09/09 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted By: Serenity13
Just seeing his name made my stomach drop and because it has been so long since he reached out, I don't want to eff up any opportunity given to me.


Well, this is the goal of DB'ing, right? Change things around to try to bring the wayward spouse back?

I wish you luck and will be keeping you in my prayers...

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."
Re: Not Me...Ever part 2
Serenity13 #1889934 12/09/09 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted By: Serenity13
Received an email from H almost 2 hours ago - All he said was "Making sure things are ok over there" Do I respond?

Crap - I can't believe 7 words from him still make me feel like crying and shake inside.


S13: "We're fine."
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