...I have an almost overwhelming urge to meet with her and tell her my thoughts, again, about the incident and its role in our current situation; tell her that she has a soft landing spot when the A implodes or she chooses to end it; and that we could achieve complete and unconditional forgiveness for each other if we both work on our M. However, I can't wait forever - I will move on. I want a companion - I want again what I had with WAW. Is my urge premature or out of line?
You can't tell her any of this stuff, it will be perceived as weak, it's just talk, no action.
You want to switch it up, go on a date with another woman, start dating other women, stop contacting her, appear to move on and see what it does for her ;-)
You aren't going to get anywhere doing what you're doing and you aren't going to convince her of your logic of a great marriage because she is in la-la land and they don't understand your language over there.
Just saying, now you've been told.
LOL so true!
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
