you know what's "funny".........my 9 year old (Peanut) has figured out that her dad's an idiot and I didn't have to say anything...

He's on his 2nd relationship since his first marriage.....engaged to be married, with a 5 month old baby. And my girl asked me how many people I've dated. 1...although he was an idiot. 1...in 2.5 yrs. She's like wow mom, dad's dated 2 girls (and lived with them) and you've dated one.

Yeah....the 9 year old gets it.

Maybe it's just my perception regarding failure. I mean this is divorce BUSTING.....so if you can't.......there's a period of time you feel like a failure. Then you find yourself. And you realize that you're better off alone than in the crappy marriage you were in, setting a bad example for your daughter.... So I don't consider myself a failure but assumed others may. That's ok though, cuz it's not about them wink


....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

me=ok /D'd since 7/07
D=ok