Yes, folks, I know you are right and I appreciate your continued reminders although I am stubbornly trying MC as a last resort.
Spoke with the MC counselor this morning and was pleased to be validated in that the MC saw the hostility, blame, criticism coming from H. He wants to work with H and he is also wanting to work with me not getting triggered and walking away from verbal abuse.
Until then, I will continue to be as protective of myself and my child as possible. I am documenting all abuse so that when/if it oomes to D, I have a record that will protect S to give me more custody. Meanwhile, I am doing better at NC until I have to see H around visits with S.
