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Re: Coming up on 1-Yr of DB'ing... - GOALS DEFINED chatterbug #1889838 12/09/09 05:52 PM
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OP mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	Cutter - You know, you are right! Funny, though, for so long, when I look into H's eyes, I wonder... "Where the bleep are you?" LoL Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Re: Coming up on 1-Yr of DB'ing... - GOALS DEFINED mindfull #1889842 12/09/09 05:57 PM
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soleil Member S Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,372	Haha. I have those moments too, Mindfull. I have looked at my H before and thought, Who the f-ck are you? Stranger-man! Me: 29 Got a ticket to the D concert

Re: Coming up on 1-Yr of DB'ing... - GOALS DEFINED soleil #1889854 12/09/09 06:03 PM
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Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	(((((mindfull))))) I can tell you are feeling better.... take it easy though! You don't need a relapse! And we need to get that little procedure out of the way!

Re: Coming up on 1-Yr of DB'ing... - GOALS DEFINED soleil #1889884 12/09/09 06:27 PM
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OP mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	Sol... if you scroll back a few pages, one of my goals is to stop saying f*ck so much. Hahaha I actually bleeped myself! I'm at about 50% now. Improvement! It's not so fun, though. Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Re: Coming up on 1-Yr of DB'ing... - GOALS DEFINED Virtually_Handsome #1889894 12/09/09 06:31 PM
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OP mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	Jeff: I hear ya! This weekend S12 has a bball tournament out of town... minimum five games in two days. We might get a hotel, and stay there, since he has to be there by 8am, and it's 90 minutes away. Hopefully it works! The extra rest will be good, considering the duration of this thing! I'm staying in, pretty much, this week. I'm tempted to go to the Martini Night party w/girlfriends tomorrow night. But, I'm not sure it's smart. And........ I have nothing to wear! LOL And........ we got at least 12 inches of snow, plus 2-3 more on the way, AND a high of only 8 degrees tomorrow! And, you can't put a remote start on my car. I just talked myself out of martini night. Sounds like work! Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Re: Coming up on 1-Yr of DB'ing... - GOALS DEFINED mindfull #1889908 12/09/09 06:36 PM
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TrentC Member T Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,240 Oregon	Originally Posted By: mindfull And........ I have nothing to wear! LOL Sounds like a heck of a party! Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement "Every day is another chance to get it right."

Re: Coming up on 1-Yr of DB'ing... - GOALS DEFINED mindfull #1889910 12/09/09 06:40 PM
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Energizer Bunny Member E Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 780	Originally Posted By: mindfull Funny, though, for so long, when I look into H's eyes, I wonder... "Where the bleep are you?" You hit the nail on the head here. I've also thought that some day my real wife will wake up and be p1ssed at what W 2.0 has done to her family! Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.

Re: Coming up on 1-Yr of DB'ing... - GOALS DEFINED TrentC #1889912 12/09/09 06:41 PM
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Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	There are days when I am quite content to live in Arizona. I think this may be one of them!

Re: Coming up on 1-Yr of DB'ing... - GOALS DEFINED Energizer Bunny #1889917 12/09/09 06:43 PM
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OP mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	EB -- LoL!!! Now THAT is funny! Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Re: Coming up on 1-Yr of DB'ing... - GOALS DEFINED mindfull #1889920 12/09/09 06:47 PM
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OP mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	OK, so H just called. "Just checking in... no school today, huh? Yea, roads are bad (I could hear the wind in the background as he was driving). Blahblahblah..." MF was kind, sounded glad to hear from him, etc.. "I have to go now. We have a Hawaiian vacation to earn! (IF I make my quota.)" I'm a source of chit chat comfort. He has such an easy tone to his voice now. I've backed WAY off, as far as initiating conversation/interactions. Just keep it up? Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

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