Is this the end of my marriage?

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Your WW is certainly not believing you will stick to the IM and NC! It is HER stuff, SHE was the one who left, who cares if it's too effing inconvienent to go to the next town???

That's what I was thinking. She wants it, she can get it. She had three months, and most of those months she was seeing D HERE, to pick up that stuff. If she had done while she was seeing D here then there would have been NO problems at all (she just had to walk upstairs).

She chose to leave it THREE months!

And I bet she is getting pissed at you and retaliating/rebelling with the FB change in relationship and deleting photos!!

I'm not sure about this but I have been thinking about it since you posted.

I have complained about W on here for keeping her old name. People have been telling me it's to normalise, it's to keep what is going on secret, it's because she didn't think about it. She also has her email address as her married name, again people told me it's because she is trying to normalise, not let people know what she's done etc. She has told close friends that he is a lodger, again to keep things secret yada yada yada.

Then she goes and let's everybody know what she's done by going onto Bebo and changing her relationship status, removing all of the stuff about me being the love of her life, taking pictures of me and D down etc. This may not seem a big deal, but she used Bebo a lot to keep in touch with people.

On the one hand she seems to be keeping it quiet by keeping things normal. On the other she is telling everybody about it. Makes no sense. She is also not 'friends' with OM on Bebo but is on FB.

She never really used FB much (as far as I know) and used Bebo instead.

I'm not posting to 'read' into all of this. I'm posting to show the complete lack of continuity in her 'plan'. She is either telling everybody about her new love, or she's keeping it secret. She can't do both!