P17 My wife did the same thing. Removed me from being friends on facebook. removed her tags from our pictures. changed marriage status to single. Its all just highschool games. Ignore them.

Ignore her.

She can deal with IM.

Once she figures out that your not playing the game any more she is going to toss a dagger at you. Anything to shake you up. So prepair for it. As it is going to be hurtful and full of spite. Something that only you will understand.

If she does this. Smile, for you are now 1 step ahead of her. And guess what she is thinking of you now. Anger. Hate. Revenge.
You gotta take this punch right on the chin and keep going.

If it kills ya. Talk to a close friend about it. Get it out of your system.

Then post here.

Think back to when you were 14 to 18. Think how girls acted then. Then look at your wife. Then look at what you know about your wife. You will see the pattern.

Next one will be hurt
The one after will be business like and from a position of authority
Toss in one nice jester.
Back to business with another hurt.


You just stay dark.