WAW turning around? What now?

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Yesterday she did find lots of excuses to contact me. The paper work, medical, christmas plans, etc. We exchanged emails a couple times and a couple texts.

She is so confusing...

My guess as to what is going on...

She feels like for us to be together I should be the ONE. (i agree) She is still so infatuated with the guy she had the affair with we can not be together since she knows that right now she has feelings for someone else.

I guess the only option is the normal DB answer. GAL. Put my time and effort into me.

She still has feelings left for me but her logic is probably something like this. "If I had not married you then I would have been with him and his life and mine would have been better. I missed my chance with my soul mate because of you. If I had ever REALLY loved you I would never have had feelings for someone else. That is how I know we are not meant to be together."

Well those are my random thoughts of the day.