We have been married 1 1/2 years, together for 5 years. Economy and loss of work has created a lot of stress and I believe depression started setting in about 2 years ago, for me anyway. She felt neglected and un-loved. She is the type of person who needs a lot of affection and I have never really been that person.
I am starting to GAL instead of moping around all day. I am working out 4-5 days a week, spending quality time with my daughter and creating more opportunity to get my career jump started.
There is a possibility for EA although we are separated and not focusing on our R so I don't really think its an EA. I know she gets a lot of attention and eats it up since I was depressed and not giving her any.
