Is my Wife Cheating?

[Steady on course]

I took your advice, and called OM wife, only OM answered the phone. We talked for a little over an hour. OM says that he and his wife are trying to reconcile. My wife is still trying to contact him, and he won’t take her calls. It’s hurting his business because he won’t take private calls, or calls with no caller I.D. He said my wife pursued him, he got spooked and ran. She is still trying to contact him. He says he feels sick over the whole thing and asked me to forgive him. He still say’s nothing physical ever happened, but that my wife wanted very badly for something to happen.
He says she needs help. (the mental kind) Funny, he gave me the same advice I’ve been getting in this forum. Don’t take any Sh@!t, and I should have put my foot down early on. He said I needed to protect myself, and get my affairs in order. Apparently she shared a lot of intimate information with him and in his words, (she is poison). He said he got caught up in an emotional bond, and got spooked when she made her intentions known. Now he wants to get together for coffee, and tell me everything. He volunteered to bring phone bills, and any other evidence I wanted. He said I was to good to be treated this way by wife, and deserved to know the whole truth. He watched me with the kids, cook the meals, do laundry, and bring home the beacon. He said I spoiled her so much, and she was taking advantage of, and using me.
This sheds a whole new light on things. I think I’m done trying to fix what isn’t broken.
It was never whole in the first place.