However happy I am about this, I am also guarded. I don't want him to take advantage of me and think he can just swoop by anytime he feels like it. It's my eternal dilemma- am I being "too nice" just to "get him to love me" when I should be setting boundaries, or am I being receptive to movement toward me? Time will tell, I guess.
I'm still watching him like a hawk for the abuse. Staying guarded.
Ah, walking on eggshells. That is not a fun place to be at all. I wish I had better advice for you but I've been there and see my H acting nice to me at times now but I am constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop. It's like I know it can only last for so long...
