Been lurking for a couple months while I deal with WAW. W left 11 months ago. We have a D of 2 years. Bought DB books about 1 month ago and I love the solution based approach. For 10 months after she left, I did nothing but beg, whine and plead for her to come back. Obviously not working but I'm stubborn. I am very much in love with her and want nothing less than to have our family back together. I know what our problems were in the past and realize that they can be dealt with and changed, but I don't think W sees it that way. For the last month I have given her space and we only converse when dropping off D. This feels wrong but I must do something different.
Any words of advice from people in the same sitch?
What are you doing to get a life? What kind of 180s are you working on?
Why did your wife leave? Is there a possibility of an affair?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
