Well, ended up in the dr's office last night with S. Seems he complained to his dad that he was having upper abdominal pain all weekend and the trainer sent him home Mon from practice early. You think H would mention it to me since this has never happened before.
So, i took him to dr and we got blood work, UA, and xray...waiting on results. Now, the kid has never had blood work so when he passed out and convulsed for a good 30 seconds it was a bit weird and scary to see. Me trying to hold a 155lb convulsing boy up in a chair whose arms are drawn up to chest shaking about, and the technician screaming for the other lady to come help... cause the needle is still in his arm... and because he outweighs me by a good 30lbs was difficult.
In the mean time, FFG and MSC guy are texting me... concerned for S.... FFG offering to bring dinner or help in anyway and MSC guy offering support was nice. They both inquired with phone calls last night (3 hours with FFG convo) (45 mins with MSC guy)(the kids were in bed) and text this morning in regards to S. Very sweet. That said.. why do I feel guilty for talking to two men at once? I am not involved with either one... so that's weird after being in a commited relationship for 19 years.
I did call H on way home to tell him of the situation. He seemed unconcerned and said "well, what's everyone doing tonight, I haven't heard from anyone". Really... shouldn't he be the one contacting his kids? Plus, he hasn't called to see how S was last night nor today. Not very in touch with his own S's well being. Thinks he's being a "pussy". He's such a douche!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too