Been lurking for a couple months while I deal with WAW. W left 11 months ago. We have a D of 2 years. Bought DB books about 1 month ago and I love the solution based approach. For 10 months after she left, I did nothing but beg, whine and plead for her to come back. Obviously not working but I'm stubborn. I am very much in love with her and want nothing less than to have our family back together. I know what our problems were in the past and realize that they can be dealt with and changed, but I don't think W sees it that way. For the last month I have given her space and we only converse when dropping off D. This feels wrong but I must do something different.
Any words of advice from people in the same sitch?
