but I'm still watching him like a hawk for the abuse. Staying guarded.
Personally, I think this stance is foolish. You're taking chances with your well-being, and that of your kid.
Abusers don't stop abusing after one session with an MC; if anything, they're good at covering up and playing nice so others don't suspect.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement