feel like giving up - talk to me!

[TrentC]

I hear you Trent - I know it's not healthy what I'm doing to myself but it's a process I have to go through to get myself back up ya know?

I understand; I just don't see how being passive about it will help, especially if the goal is to rescue the marriage.

If he could see and hear you now, would he be moved to try to work things out?

[mindfull]

Luv - Hiya. I feel ya' honey.

Can you confide in the friend you're having lunch with? It might help to talk to someone in person...

I know it's hard, especially since I've tried to explain my situation to a friend or two before, and I just can't find the words.

HUGS my friend!

[luvless]

(((mind)))

thank you sweety - yes I have confided in her and will talk to her about it a little but won't make our whole visit just that. I miss her and need to catch up and that's what we'll do.

I'm going to keep listening hard to the boys - I get an oscar for swallowing my tongue lately!

i love you guys - thanks for your much needed support

[mindfull]

Luv, I choke on mine constantly!

[soleil]

Hey Luv,

What makes you think he's having an A?

[mindfull]

Sol... was just going to ask the same thing!

[luvless]

He's acted like this before and he was "talking" with another coworker. I never found out if it was physical I busted it up before I got to that point I truly believe.

He is very mean and distant to me - classic sign

Hey..the heartache diet is doing me some good I lost 5 lbs these last 2 weeks. ugh

[mindfull]

Luv, Ick.

How does he treat the kids? How are they treating him?

I think I got two of your five.

Blech.

How was lunch????

[luvless]

Hi Mind sweet girl,

He is very impatient with the kids but he does try and talk to them. They are a little irritated with his behavior.

Two of my five?

Lunch was amazing. I missed my friend and we caught up. We talked alot about my R but she wanted to talk about it.

I got some stuff to say but I'll be back.

[Lll54]

Hey Luvless, yes we are in the same position. My H's suspected A though is believed by others to have been a few months ago. But I hate this feeling of not knowing.

In one way I don't want to know, but then of course you do. What a predicament to be in. I just wanted you to know I feel what you''re going through, and I will also be checking in on your sitch to see how it goes. Good Luck