P17, I don't know how jealous you are of a person, and my WH is not abusive or anything, BUT he does get very jealous. I am scared that dating will make him pissed off and will push him to file the D.
Or dating will send a signal to him that I am over him and he should, out of guilt and being "noble," grant me the divorce.
I am open to hearing the opinions out there--I am just discussing my fears, not setting anything in stone! :-)
By the way, I am in the other room He is here today. He came near as I was typing and I shut the cover on the lap top quickly--just like HE did back when he was sneaking around! ha ha ha!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004