I'm w/Gno and Gypsy. I wouldn't even discuss it w/her, allow your attorney to handle it, and you will know it's fair. I hear ya' though, re: costs more to fight it situation... There's a fine line between reality, and not "accepting" life, though.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.