Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[January girl]

TrentC,
He has said since before Thanksgiving when we had a blow-up that he would have no contact with her until after he moves out after the holidays. I made it very clear that if he wants to have contact with her he must move out ASAP. Is transparency required if he has been very clear he is moving out after the holidays? Or should I simply be MY best and keep moving forward for me without asking to see his computer and phone? Or should I demand to see both so I can sleep in peace at night? I'm so trying to be strong. It is very hard. Some days, I feel like it is just a big game to him. Other days, he acts like his old self again. I love him more than I ever thought possible.

M-43
H-43

M-17 years T-20

D-8
S-1

Bomb Aug 09---OW-Depression-MLC