Well, that didn't long. I managed to get a peek at H's single male profile on the swinger website last night. He's advertising that he's recently separated and looking for new partners, and started that at least three days ago- at least judging by the date he was last online, so it could have been longer. I'm not really upset, I figured he would do that. It's almost laughable. I guess if I decide I want to go out myself, I won't feel guilty.
Well, that didn't long. I managed to get a peek at H's single male profile on the swinger website last night. He's advertising that he's recently separated and looking for new partners, and started that at least three days ago- at least judging by the date he was last online, so it could have been longer.
That doesn't surprise me at all. He's only being nice because he wants to weasel his way back into your good graces. You're a "party favor" and little more at this point.
I'd stop looking at that stuff; there's no good that can come of it. You and Chester take some time to settle in.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
It's not too much of a surprise. All he is doing is demonstrating that you were right to get out. When we are stressed we go back to what we are. I think that's what he is doing.
I won't check it again, don't need to. Saw it once, suspicion confirmed, now moving on...
I'm surprised that you were suspicious.
To me, it was quite clear that he plans to continue in the lifestyle with or without you.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
((Bunny)) I think I just threw up a little in my mouth. Detach, Sweetie. I know how badly you would love for others to see H the way you do. For crying out loud, my H volunteers at the local abused womens shelter. How's that for weird? There might be times when you doubt yourself. That's okay. There might be times when you need to take a break from the DB boards. Or the internet altogether. Bunny, it's time to Get a Life. Many, many people are praying for you and Chester. Oh, and listen to Bridgestone. She's one of the best, IMO. Peace.
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
