Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[TrentC]

Here's my question....over the last couple of days my H has finally started leaving his computer and phone unattended. Does this generally mean he has stopped all contact as he claims with OW?

Not necessarily. He could be baiting a trap for you, to "prove" that you don't trust him.

Have you set a boundary regarding OW? If not, now is a great time to do it.

One of the requirements should be transparency, which means he has to allow you to view those whenever you feel you need to.