I hear you Trent - I know it's not healthy what I'm doing to myself but it's a process I have to go through to get myself back up ya know?
I understand; I just don't see how being passive about it will help, especially if the goal is to rescue the marriage.
If he could see and hear you now, would he be moved to try to work things out?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement