First of all, IM is not sure how to respond to last text. She wants to reiterate NC to W and that I am NOT getting involved directly with her. However, not sure how to phrase it or whether we should just ignore that and go about it business like - W has been told twice about NC / IM, how many times does she need to really be told.
Secondly, was in W's shop today as I wanted to get some tinsel. Saw W driving away just as I got there with her friend so I knew she wasn't in the store.
Got the tinsel and outdoor lights (P has NEVER had outdoor lights and they look cool around the conifer trees in the front garden - off to get more later tonight!). A few people saw me in the store with my friend (who is a woman) and one person even went out of their way to say hello?! That felt like the previous week's imaginings that everybody was looking at me was in fact in my head ... maybe.
IM told me that W has removed every trace of me and D from her Bebo page and has updated her status from 'married' to 'in a relationship'. That bothered me actually for a little while but I'm not fussed now after I got over the initial shock.
Anyway, couldn't edit the last post, hence two posts.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
