feel like giving up - talk to me!

[TrentC]

I'm just checking in. I'm here in limbo feeling sick to my stomach waiting for my H to WA. I think he may be having an EA and slight possible it's turned physical.

If he's in an affair, then waiting for him to wake up is pointless. He's got what he wants right now.

If you can work on finding a way to bust the affair -- can you find out for sure? Is the suspected OW married? -- then do so.

Or, you can go for a LRT; throw him out, tell him you're looking to file for D, and move on. Maybe, just maybe, that will snap him out of the fog.

But your resentment is building because you're just sitting there waiting for him to come around. That's not healthy.