Ok bit of an update, I didnt get the last few posts in time so here is what happend.
I rang my wife imidiately after getting of the phone to my solicitor. Told her I would be moving back in in January as she has defaulted on her part of the deal. Anyway, conversation was pretty short, but most annoyingly her signal must have been poor as she kept cutting out. I kept my cool throught the conversation, but she was getting irate. Made me feel as if I was in control for the first time.
2 minutes after the phone call her mother is on the phone (havn't heared off her in months). Anyway, she said 'just to let you know W is contacting the CSA and you will loose half your wages. Just warning you thats all.' I responded in the same controlled manner by saying 'yes that's fine and I expected it'. Then she starts saying stuff like ' I dont contribute to the kids' and 'W already has a rented house sorted'.
So thats it so far, I remained calm and got my message accross, but they both seemed to be loosing thier temper by the end of the conversation.
A letter from my solicitor will be with her shortly...
