my W doesn't regret her affair

[Gnosis]

ROFLMAO.... Just saw your update.

As for this:

Should I say I expect her to come over to help me clean it up?

Yes, its the right thing to do.

Wording to play with:
"W, I need to get this mess cleaned up ASAP. Would you like to come over and salvage whatever you can tonight? Its important you come and get whatever you can because I won't be held responsible for whatever ends up in the trash."