my W doesn't regret her affair

[Gnosis]

I'm sorry Future. Wish I had words of comfort to offer.

I told her about the basement flood and all the stuff being ruined, much of which is her old books from years ago. She was sympathetic and in her calm soothing voice said "H, I'm so sorry, you must be so stressed out."

Not sure about the timing, that sounds like an automatic response to me.

Puppy & Future, I have to disagree with both of you about this:

Manipulating? Possibly. Or maybe she's being RESPECTFUL

None of the above. It probably didn't register on her that most of the stuff was hers. Or she's so completely disconnected and doesn't GAS. I know my W would freak out if her stuff was damaged.

I'd write this off as an automated response due to the fact that she wasn't completely tuned in at the time.