My darling has what might perhaps be termed a healthy mix of excitement about the prospect of us living under the same roof again together AND "Are we ready for this? ..Not sure if this is gonna work? " One key thing that I see in her is that she is openly expressing the fears and then seemingly processing them a bit over a little bit of time ..pondering (more like me - to the hilt). Then when she comments next it slightly seems like she is rebuilding faith and trust in me somewhat and my judgement on some stuff.
In earlier posts I had mentioned that the Lord is overhauling both of us and crafting more whole beings that step outside ourselves a bit to study and digest and respond accordingly to what the spouse might be feeling/thinking.