I think "for obvious reasons I will not be attending this event" will work.
You're right that I don't have to ask them to contact me again.
Fortunately I got myself checked for all the STD's OW might have transmitted, and all is good.
So they can have fun with penicillian or whatever they want.
But seriously--WHAT WERE THEY THINKING? oh, not just in this in invite, but making it OK to have an affair conducted under their roof? whatever happened to: get a room!
Sheesh.
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process