"Sorry, I have a previous engagement. I'm not into the lifestyle and hope you have a swinging great time."
And then discreetly spread the word about how its going to be a partner swapping event.
But, hey, that's me...
EDIT: Also, you don't need to tell them you don't want them to contact you again and you no longer see them as friends. Silence speaks louder than words.
Last edited by Gnosis; 12/09/0904:12 PM.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT