Re: how to 180 when you've been too independent?

[avermont]

Don't I get to add in anything more...grrrr... Like "please don't extend an invitation to me again."

Or how about " for obvious reasons, I will not be attending this or any other event at your home. Please do not contact me again."

Is this ballsy on their part, just completely oblivious, or did X spin some tale about how our R was completely rotten for years, and we are both happy to have it be over? guess I'll never know.

And Puppy, please--reassure me somehow that seeing me GAL, together, getting along will SCARE a man who was always asking for more committment, and was always afraid that I might walk someday? I truly believe it just helps relieve his guilt.

But of course I can't go into this or any other encounter weeping and fainting.

Where's the middle ground? where's the balance???