-Thurs, Thanksgiving-wife has a "shaving" accident in the shower. "oops" she said, "I went a little too far, so I have to take it all off" Whatever. -Black Fri-gone all day, I cant reach her, supposedly at work, returns at 6 with hair in pony tail (she left in work clothes) -Sat-We are at IKEA and I get a text from her lover (!!!!) telling me to pass on a message about a guy at the bank (where she works) whose father died. When I asked who this was contacting me, his exact words were: "Gimme a break, you know this number. Just pass on the message please" Are you friggin kidding me? Wife reacted by saying, "How do you want me to react? there's no right way to do it!"
Barf...block that number, for your own sanity. Separate your cell phone account from that of your wife and make her pay for her own. As for the Brazilian thing...you should have called her on the dishonesty of it.
Originally Posted By: Norseman05
-So, as I head to our counseling session Thurs, am I simply handing her over to this punk? My man side of my psyche wants to:
-fully OUT the affair at work, including calling his boss, calling her boss, etc -contact his soon to be exwife via facebook -hire a P.I. or start tracking her, etc with GPS... -Hire an attorney -Change the locks on the house so she can't come and go.
Ruining her career is probably cutting off your own nose to spite your face. It is also spiteful. Is htat who you want to be? As for the rest of it, what are your boundaries of personal integrity? Do you have a strategy for protecting yourself and your boys? How does each of your actions fit with that strategy?
