Because she wants to see that you're moving on, and that you're going to be okay.
Puppy
Isn't that evident by the fact I am in my own place and have been?
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Because she wants to see that you're moving on, and that you're going to be okay.
Puppy
Isn't that evident by the fact I am in my own place and have been?
Kevin
to a very small degree ...but not really though
expand your thinking K4D .. 'moving on & being ok' has so very little to do with you being in your own place and limitting contact with her. It has plenty to do with identifying troubling behaviors in yourself and sheer unhealthiness and growth blockers and making concrete new choices with results for YOURSELF.
Because she wants to see that you're moving on, and that you're going to be okay.
Puppy
Isn't that evident by the fact I am in my own place and have been?
Kevin
Yes, but isn't your lease up for renewal? Much of your stance towards her still has been conveying "neediness" (no need to rehash all that here; just sayin'). I'm sure she cares for you, and wants to know if you're starting to move on emotionally, in my opinion.
Kev..you and I need to work on our "neediness". LOL J/K
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
however, I will keep plenty of lumber nearby K4D. I hope to not have to use it butttt ......please don't tempt me. I and other's are here to keep you from slipping up or something.
Tomato: yes that is in my profile. Why? Because its a huge part of the dynamics of our relationship. Sorry if it offended you.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
